So I'm in a Facebook group with nearly 500,000 followers who love black hairstyles. I usually just look, like, and comment as needed. I'm more careful about what I say/post because I can see that the women in this group can either be very comment friendly or vicious. However, I can't get over the latest post of two little girls with different hairstyles with weaves. One received praise while the other didn't stand a chance. This got me to thinking about the weave I put in my own daughter's hair. And now I am wondering what makes it look too much and too grown?