Recently I was in a Facebook group where the post included a woman who had gone to great lengths to get an amazing ass. It was obvious she indulged in butt injections. The comment section of the post was wild and ranged from delicious to disgusting. At one point, a woman suggested that the woman did this because of the pressure men put on women to have a big ass. A guy responded by saying that men didn't do this, she did. I agreed with him, and the debate started.
You see, I think butt shots is a condition of women attempting to fit other women's theory concerning beauty with a side of low self-esteem. The woman in the group disagreed stating that because of men's admiration of asses, women feel the need to get butt injections. I explained that this is a woman's doing because of other women. For instance, I have never heard a man say a woman's eyebrows are sexy neither have I heard a man say, "Oh baby, that contouring is turning me on!" The only reason why women focus on eyebrows, asses, and contouring is that we want to live up to the beauty standards of other women. Women force this idea on us that big butts, contouring, and eyebrows are life.
On the other hand, I can understand that some women may feel that getting a man of their dreams or being instafamous, is to have a big ass. I mean look at the women we celebrate Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, Amber Rose, and Black Chyna. An ass got them where they needed to be or did it?
I think their talent, yes talent, and persistence got them to greater heights and just maybe their butt reconstruction boosted their self-esteem. Do I think they would've made it without getting butt injections? Most definitely. Do I think they believed that? Hell no.
And this is why I think women get their ass filled with chemicals because they are following the lead thinking that a phat ass will lead them to the promise land. Many women who feel this way should realize those celebrity women with big booties and little thighs got to where they're at because they put in work. Yes, like many years of work, that extends beyond their ass. However, I can't help but think that many of these celebs with ass shots regret it, like K. Michelle in the video below. It seems like their behind undermine their talent, makes it hard for people to take them seriously, and most importantly causes significant health risks.
I wish women would recognize that it isn't the ass that takes you places or gets you the man you want. It is you. You are so much more than a phat ass. And as the saying goes...for every hot girl there is at least one dude who is tired of her bullshit. So even if you get the ass that you want from the butt shots, you still need substance. Because I bet you money that the woman with a small to no ass is getting more serious dates than the woman with a fat ass and little thighs.